When you get called for the audition, you don’t need to decide whether or not you want the gig.
When someone emails about flying you somewhere for a private gig, you don’t need to add it to the calendar just yet.
And of course, when the label promises you the big advance or big tour…don’t go out and buy that dream car.
The actual opportunities are simply the audition, an email reply, and the meeting with the label. That’s it.
No need to make big long term decisions when the simple opportunities of the day don’t demand it.