How Can I Read Your Mind Better?

i.e. What are your unspoken expectations?

This is at the heart of so much heartbreak and frustration in this business.

Our personal expectations are ‘just the way it is’…and it’s easy to think they’re shared by others…or at least they should have read my mind by now.

It’s worth asking the people around you what they’re really hoping for. You’re sure to learn something new. Something they’ve been thinking all along but secretly expecting you to just read their mind.

You’re good but you’re not that good. You’re going to have to ask.

 

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Who Is Going To Get The Credit?

We don’t start off asking this question…but when we get to the end of the project and the answer isn’t ‘me’, we have a problem with that.

So it’s worth considering if that question and answer was part of the driving force from the beginning, even without noticing it. Because no one is walking around thinking they’ve been given enough credit…we could all use a little more and maybe THIS time I’ll finally get mine.

Everyone is thinking a version of the same thing (I just want a little bit. I just want my fair share. I just don’t want that other person to get so much).

When the project has been completed and there’s a big stack of credit to be had, are you going to claim all that you can or give all that you can?

 

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Try A Playlist

First Monday of the month means new Hum Love playlist on Spotify and Apple

Making and sharing a playlist every month has it’s a bunch of free and wonderful benefits…

-it’s free

-you to listen to new music

-your taste is developed

-others get to check out your taste

-it grows your own creativity

-it’s fun playing A&R guy

-finding a diamond in the rough is exhilarating

Give it a try.

 

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Let It Fill Your Cup

The great moment in the show

The magical writing session

Listening back to the final mix

The look your kid gives you at the breakfast table

The pink sunset

The best dessert at the best restaurant

Let it fill your cup in the moment because you’re not gonna remember it…even though it will effect you forever.

The moment is the gift. That’s it. That’s the whole thing.

 

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The Double Album

Bob Dylan released the first double album, Blonde On Blonde. A few weeks later Frank Zappa released a double album and then many more followed.

Roger Bannister ran the first sub four minute mile in May of 1954. A few weeks later John Landy did it too.

The iPhone came out in 2007. We know what happened next.

All of these ideas were already in the ether during their respective times in history. On the brink of happening at any moment…and as soon as they happened once they happened a lot more.

Ideas like this come from the optimistic side of ‘maybe’…and being more curious than afraid to lay it on the line.

 

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We Are The Ones

We are the initiators

The builders

The performers

The memory makers

The magicians

The archeologists

The inventors

The connectors

We are the ones who see, create and share beauty with the world and for the world…even when it seems impossible…even when we don’t feel like it.

The new year is as good of time as any to decide what the upcoming year is going to be about. What our contribution will be. What we can be relied upon for. How we will serve. Who we will serve. And the sacrifices we’re willing to make in order to make it happen.

 

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