If the masseuse says ‘wow you’re tense’…I don’t know of anyone who would be surprised.
If the masseuse then asked ‘what’s all this tension’…you would easily be able to rattle off your list. But the masseuse doesn’t tell you to change your lifestyle. In part, your tension keeps them in business.
Perhaps the more interesting thing would be if the masseuse were to say ‘wow you’re not tense at all’. Even if it weren’t true it might help you think you’re more relaxed than you actually are…which just might end up making you more relaxed than you were.
