I think all of us in this business walk around with a little something to prove.
Some of us with a LOT to prove, some of us hide it and some of us parade it around like a badge of honor.
I’m not sure it ever completely goes away.
But I think over time, Lord willing, the chip erodes.
And in equal and opposite fashion “what you have to prove” erodes in direct correlation as you are uncovering “what you have to give”.
Now don’t get me wrong, there have been some GREAT performers and performances along the way from people who obviously have a lot to prove (and very little clue of what it is they’re giving). It can certainly make for great fireworks.
And I’m not necessarily arguing that you totally ignore what it is you feel you have to prove.
But for the long run, and for your life, it’s worth considering what you have to GIVE…and my guess is you’ll find it’s related in a strange way to what you have to prove.
See…walking into a room with something to give as oppose to something to prove sets you free. Free to care, free to help, free to inspire in the way that only you can.
It’s true. I’ll prove it to you :)
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I’m always interested in your perspective, whether affirming or dissenting. Continue the conversation anytime: gabethebassplayer@gmail.com