When a friend tells you something about themselves what is the posture of your response?
Is it, ‘yeah me too, let me tell you my version of that story’?
Is it, ‘interesting, tell me more’?
Both are important skills. Most of us have a tendency toward one or the other…keep developing the other one.
»» If you’ve developed both skills then the ensuing hurdle is the lifelong quest for discernment for when to employ which.
