When you’re on stage and the thought occurs to you “this show isn’t going well”, what is your reaction? What does that thought trigger?
Singing louder?
Getting pissed?
Going nuts?
Standing still?
Checking out?
Speeding the song up?
Getting mad at the keys player for not hitting the right part…even though it was three songs ago?
Telling yourself the audience just sucks, writing them off?
Some of these aren’t totally off the mark, but typically their laced with a lot of fear and a reactionary attitude. Typically all of the responses above are that persons version of freaking out.
I think you can do better. I think you should start replacing what the “this isn’t going well” thought is triggering.
I know I know, every audience is different so making a plan is impossible.
But make a plan anyway.
And by make a plan I mean start giving yourself some new triggers. Some things that lead you to take responsibility for the show rather than dodging it.
Here’s some ideas that I’ve seen work in the “this show isn’t going well” situation…
Tell a good story
Break a song down and build for a long time to a climax
Go into the crowd
Change the setlist, play a slammer
Make a legit reference to the city you’re in
Figure it out. What’s worked for you in the past? Whats show you can think of where you turned it around after it wasn’t going well? What did you embrace and carry out in order to do that?
The thought “this show isn’t going well” is going to happen to you…what response do you want that thought to trigger?
p.s. You’re right…there’s only so much you can do.
But before you go there, take out the word ‘only’…there’s so much you can do.
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I’m always interested in your perspective, whether affirming or dissenting. Continue the conversation anytime: gabethebassplayer@gmail.com