You worked just as hard as the other person.
You didn’t get the result you wanted, they did.
Why?
Outcome isn’t solely based on effort.
For a long time we’ve been told it’s all about working harder. And if you don’t get the result you want, work even harder.
The element missing here is connection.
You’ve already been working hard, you can’t work any harder…so what do you do when you don’t know what to do next? Connect.
Connection trumps effort. Connection makes effort look good. Connection creates a magnetic pull that can multiply the effect of your effort into infinity.